Make a list of all the hats you wear. Who are you: a mother, a sister, a businesswoman, a student, an athlete? When you have completed your list write your wish in a separate column. Draw arrows connecting the aspects of your life that would benefit if your wish came true.

You should have at least five facets of your identity connecting to your wish. If not, maybe you should look deeper into the mirror and find more aspects of your life that connect to your wish. Or perhaps you should modify your wish so that it touches more areas of your life.

When you have at least five connections between your self and your wish click below to go to Exercise 4.